Experiencing this inequitable power dynamic will soon have you reaching ‘earthquake level’ types of orgasms. This first step alone will tell you a lot about your relationship. If he understands how you feel, realizes his errors, and agrees to do it for your sake then it’s safe to say that he loves you. If he blows you off, argues your points and says no, then you have bigger issues to solve. Permanent chastity may be damned erotic, but can be extremly hard to bear if it comes to it in reality. So it happened to me. Once I initialised chastity, meant as a kink erotic game. My Wife became my Mistress, I became a Slavehubby with doing chores and serving Mistress. Chastity, tease and denial ….. all grew more and more to daily routine,

No sperm release. No Orgasm. No dirty talk. Not any kind of Sex at all! In return I have to serve much harder and subserviently because of her moods. Have to give her massage, read to her, have to ask for permission for even lille things. And better she does not be aware my member growing…… that definitely leads to a harsh whipping. Generally I receive much more spankings and whippings than before her menopause. The Sexual Fetish of Chastity is one of those fetishes which is centered on the mental satisfaction over the physical. But more than the mental outweighing the physical, as is the case for a good number of fetishes, this one, almost exclusively, is concerned with NO physical pleasure. The whole point of the Chastity Fetish is that the participant does not receive physical sexual satisfaction. Your man will need help learning to get used to this feeling which is why you should incorporate a lot of teasing into his early caged sessions. Wearing a cage is never going to be 100% comfortable, especially during the night, but that’s just something he’s going to have to learn to deal with.Yes Mistress" I again replied, a wide smile beaming on my face. I was ready to please Her in any way she demanded. Little did I know what she had in store for me that evening. Eventually, you can put an end to his releases and orgasms entirely, and enjoy a long, happy, healthy, and extremely sexually active relationship. If his releases are important to your sexual life, and your desires, you may decide never to take the ultimate step in chastity control. More and more women, however, are choosing this bold step forward, due to the increasing variety and quality of modern stimulation devices for women, as well as the many ways an enthusiastic and focused man can provide gratification without using his penis. It is true that keeping the hope of orgasms around is a powerful motivating tool, so many who choose this strategy keep releases on an arbitrary basis officially, and simply phase his releases out naturally. If he is well trained enough, you shouldn't ever hear a complaint about it, since he should know that asking only pushes a release further away. As a result, you can choose perminant denial without having to inform him, reducing any possible drop in the quality of his service to you. Medically speaking, there is no reason why a man needs to ever have a release or orgasm to live a long and healthy life, so ultimately your preferences are the only thing that matters.

Another popular strategy is one based on earned releases, or even point based reward. These systems allow you to focus your specific goals for your man, such as housework, attentiveness, concern for your happiness, and general obedience. This method allows you greater ability to put off releases, and to insist upon higher and higher standards of service, as you are the judge of what merits adding or taking away of points. This method also allows for directly earned releases, where your frustrated man will agree to things he might be reluctant to agree to just to earn a release. As always, the important thing is to keep him highly motivated to obey and please you. Some women enjoy playing chastity games with their men, without his agreeing to give them the final say. This is fine for some, but not for a truly female led relationship. To experience the real benefits of chastity, he must agree to give you full control. If your man truly cares more for your happiness than his own, he should be glad for the opportunity to prove his devotion and love to you. You should probably consider taking a serious reappraisal of a man who would rather have selfish orgasms than put you first and become a better person under your leadership. If you want him to take pleasing you seriously, chastity release has to be entirely your decision. The more you have him caged, the longer he will be able to keep it on. Soon you’ll have him caged out in public and eventually caged overnight. It took my husband it took several attempts at wearing his cage before he could wear it overnight without pain and discomfort. This is because penis’ naturally get erect throughout the night, especially between the hours of 3am to 5am. Because the chastity cage prevents penises from getting fully erect, this can and will wake a man up and be very uncomfortable and even painful.Permanent male chastity has been known to save an otherwise ‘hopeless’ relationship. It can effectively replace a disdainful and disrespectful attitude on his part with one of adoration and appreciation. Once he agrees to this, his surrender and devotion to you becomes complete. You now have your very own chastity slave. The Next Stage Of Permanent Male Chastity Mistress stood with Her hand on the door knob in one hand and the leash in the other. She looked me up and down and a wide smile grew across her face.

The door to the dungeon opened again and Mistress approached me with a shiny metal leash hanging from her right hand. It clinked as she walked and it was fixed to my collar once she arrived at my knelt position. Permanent male chastity is certainly not for every couple and is a decision that should never be taken lightly. After all, it’s permanent!No point in nodding. We're going to use you for our own enjoyment. I really don't care if you enjoy tonight. I'm going to have a lot of fun with you and that's all that matters. Isn't it?" I nodded again. Now, crawl on our hands and knees behind your Goddess. You will do exactly as you're told tonight. No questions. The moment you crawl through that door you're mine to do with exactly as I please. Isn't that right slave?" As far as his prostrate health goes, his body will naturally produce a spontaneous discharge, usually in the form of a wet dream, every 60 to 90 days. There will be no need for you to perform any messy and time consuming milkings. You will want to start a collection of strap-on dildos for when you desire penetrative sex. Many women find that they actually prefer a nice sized, Follow me" she purred as she turned and tugged on the leash toward the dungeon. I crawled on my hands and knees, mesmerised by her heels leading the way in front of me.