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As a result, many have gone through a series of jobs and have had unsatisfactory experiences which get more discouraging as the years pass. Laughing and joking can be rarities in Aspie relationships, and even if they’re not, you probably don’t see him that often and it’s not healthy for anyone to spend too much time alone.
The explanations are clear and the advice honest and realistic but I found the positive notes rather bleak.
As mentioned, there does seem to be a “disconnect” that goes on, usually temporary, between the heart and mind of a person with AS. If you know anything about that philosophy, there is a principle of non-attachment that runs throughout the teachings; the thread that ties it all together. The results suggest that the detection of happy facial expressions is impaired in individuals with ASD and high ATs, which may contribute to their difficulty in creating and maintaining affiliative social relationships. He also yelled at his wife and their passenger for talking while he was driving, saying it distracted him.
She talks with humour and honesty about the quirks and sensitivities that you may come across when getting to know your partner.It can also be an indicator that you are engaged and attentive to her, which can lead to more effective and meaningful conversations.
But as soon as he feels he knows all there is to know about a person or topic, and has decided it is not someone or something which interests him, he can be quite rude.
His words “If I invited you over for a movie and you were late, I would find plenty of things to do until you arrived. As for whether or not it is a good idea to be with someone whom you even want to change, well, there are two points of view to this one.