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No one enjoys the discomfort of disrupting the status quo, but you will find it easier the more you do it. You realize you are far more capable than you thought possible. 17. Find your reason. To figure out how to love your life again, let’s look at some of the possible reasons why you hate it right now. Why do I hate my life?
It is better to just own your mistakes and strive to do better going forward. 15. Be willing to take risks.I have disagree I think if a some one is a life Coach and has genuine qualifications such as pschologically/and other relevant qualifications required/desirable ones . You would be amazed how lonely people can be, even in a big city. Perhaps most people would think to confide in their family but you would be amazed how many people I see who haven't even spoken to their partners or family about their troubles. If you only think about where you want to end up, you’ll lose touch with where you are right now. Every step of the way offers important lessons and insights.
If you can’t find a glimmer of hope and feel so depressed, please don’t allow your angst and apathy to prevent you from seeking help. Weeks go by, and you realize you haven’t had meaningful conversations with anyone. You feel isolated and begin to withdraw further. Yes, there is a possibility of failing, but there is also the possibility of succeeding. You never know unless you try. 16. Get comfortable with discomfort. Sure, you can wait years until you find the “perfect therapist,” or you can try to make this one work if they are knowledgeable and capable. However, you can learn a lot from anyone if you make yourself do the work.We are all creatures of habit. We live with routines and patterns that dictate the quality of our lives. These habits are either empowering or limiting. But today is the day you need to get real if you want to start feeling good about yourself again. 2. Gain some clarityon why you hate your life. We need (as Andrew Adonis and I argue in Saving Britain) an industrial policy not just for the City, but for the country, a repurposing of enterprise, a re-enfranchisement of workforces and a remaking of our threadbare social contract, in particular the dysfunctional care system. Too many of England’s towns, even some in the south-east, are becoming crucibles of shit-life syndrome. They have become inward-looking, urban islands in which despair and despondency are too prevalent; their high streets in decline while hi-tech, knowledge-intensive jobs pass them by. Train and bus fares are so high that travelling within them has become prohibitively expensive. Stripped of power by the most centralised system in Europe, they are disempowered and sullen about the present and apprehensive of the future. All this can and must change. For example, maybe you decide to take a new route to the shops or set the habit of researching one new way to become financially independent each day. No matter how small and seemingly inconsequential the change is, do it. Commit to it with religious fervor. If no one is coming on their white horse to save you, you need to find a way to save and free yourself. Be willing and prepared to experience some discomfort to make a change and live out the new conditions that lead you to better prospects.
This will help strengthen your heart and lungs, improve your strength and flexibility, help manage your weight, boost your immune system, and reduce stress. You may be anxious about taking risks but taking calculated risks isa necessary part of growth and success. Start out by figuring out exactly where it all seems to go wrong at the moment. Sit down and write down everything that’s been bothering you. Passionate love that can turn toxic and sour (or even just... fade away) isn't the sole realm of romantic relationships. Friendships are also complex dances that can end in tears and breakups. If some of your connections just don't feel right anymore, you might be wondering how to know when to end a friendship. The key here is to stay persistent in your quest for change while you are trying to pass life’s tests of patience and willpower.
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If you’re struggling to do this on your own, consider seeking professional help like cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). And because of that, I identify more with a phrase that you sometimes hear passed around: “You are what you do.” No matter what we do, we’ll always have naysayers. Be courageous and do what makes you happy, even if that means cutting some people off or accepting that you’ll be thought of as “weird” or “crazy.” Those that do not support you tend to hang around you like dead weight, so throw social norms to the wind, and let it go. 5. Create energy barriers If you are able to act in spite of this fear, you’ll realize that you have more control over your circumstances than you previously believed. Try to locate experienced and trustworthy practitioners who hold San Pedro, Peyote, Ayahuasca, or Psilocybin Mushrooms ceremonies either in your country or one nearby (if traveling is accessible to you). Even small quantities of marijuana which is now legalised in many countries, can be tremendously healing when done meditatively and intentionally.
It’s normal to feel frustrated on occasion when you are trying to improve your situation, but don’t allow frustration to sour your mindset. Problems are a constant in life. When you solve your health problem by buying a gym membership, you create new problems, like having to get up early to get to the gym on time, sweating like a meth-head for thirty minutes on an elliptical, and then getting showered and changed for work, so you don’t stink up the whole office. When your solve problem of not spending enough time with your partner by designating Wednesday night “date night”, you generate new problems, such as figuring out what to do every Wednesday that you both won’t hate, making sure you have enough money for nice dinners, rediscovering the chemistry and spark you two feel you’ve lost…” In a column for The Irish Times, writer John McManus questioned whether Ireland had developed shit life syndrome in the wake of a recent fall in life expectancy. [3] These are red flags, signaling that you’re not just feeling like crap for no reason—there’s more to it.
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