Shots Spreader Bar with Cuffs

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Nobody says all of your spreader bar play has to take place while the person is lying down! Insteading, the Standing Bar Position uses the spreader bar to spread the bound person's ankles wide. With an adjustable spreader bar, you can really vary the "spread" of the person's ankles, but if you have a spreader bar without adjustments, ensure that your partner's legs can spread as wide as the length of the bar. (Everyone's ability to spread is different based on height, flexibility, and strength!)

Learning those few important things will save you some valuable time and money: Is It fixed size or expandable? Something a little different from the usual leather-and-chains aesthetic that you usually find in BDSM gear. Before you begin, it’s best to have a discussion with your partner about using one of these items. Open communication about what you are both interested in getting out of the experience is necessary to ensure everyone is comfortable with adding this type of bondage bar to your gear. Any boundaries and rules should be discussed before you begin. I guess you can always upgrade and insert another bar in place of the PVC one if you need something sturdier Also, a tip is to buy extra carabineer clips. They always come handy and allow to connect the dots and restraints 😉The 19 best spreader bar positions include simple, either upper or lower body restraint positions, as well as using both, in more complicated and adventurous positions. The spreader bar is one of the many tools used by those in the BDSM community. These bars are designed with to be placed between the limbs to hold them apart until the bar is removed. Spreader bars are most commonly used between the ankles, though they can be placed between the wrists as well, depending on the type of play you have in mind. A door is a good way to punish your sub, keeping them exactly where you want them until you’re ready to have some fun with them. You don’t need to use an actual door, either, though you do need some sort of anchor point above the sub to maintain the prone position. A ceiling hook or beam or a closet rod will work, though they don’t offer the same leaning point that a door has, so your sub will need to maintain their balance on their own. While 50 Shades of Grey got many, many things wrong when it comes to BDSM relationships, the series did get one thing right: consensually restraining a partner (or being restrained) with handcuffs can create an intimate and powerful sexual experience. The person doing the restraining—referred to as the "top" in BDSM lingo—can do whatever they damn well please, while the bottom is in the vulnerable (and titillating) position of being at their mercy. There's an element of deep trust that comes with using handcuffs and other restraints during sex.

You may want to add some pillows or Liberator sex furniture to this one to help it be as comfortable as possible. Unsurprisingly, most people aren't used to being on their hands and knees - with both wrists and ankles spread very far out. An adjustable spreader bar (on its lowest spread settings) can help reduce some of the strain, but this is not a position you should expect most people to be able to hold for long periods of time. This is why it’s important for your suggestion to come across as an invitation to your partner, rather than a request. If you make it clear this idea is for both of your benefit, you’re more likely to be greeted with questions and curiosity than fear and rejection.”Spreader bars are most commonly attached to the ankles - to spread the legs apart - but they can be used on the wrists as well. (Some BDSM movies have definitely popularized the look of a secretary doing her daily tasks with her wrists outstretched from either side of her body!) People like using spreader bars for a whole range of reasons, from their position enhancing benefits to their restraint possibilities.

You may have tried bed restraints under the bed before. But did you know that leg spreader bars are actually a lot more practical for bondage and sex? For this position, you don’t need the ankle cuffs unless you’re going to put them to use later. Wrist cuffs are a must, though, so secure them onto your partner’s wrists. You’ll also need to attach a rope or strap to the door on one side, with the other end coming over the closed door.

Bed restraints, on the other hand, consist of straps that wrap around the top and bottom of your mattress. They feature attachment points (usually D-rings or O-rings) and/or cuffs so you can open your partner’s legs by pulling them apart. Generally the restrained person will be spread out in a starfish position, either face up or face down Remember our safety tips if you choose to have your partner walk around while in this bondage position. They will have no way to "catch" themselves - and you'll likely mess with their usual sense of balance as well - which makes it easier to fall. Plan ahead whenever you plan on taking your bondage mobile. Now you have all of the necessary safety under your belt. Let's get into the hot stuff you came here for - all of the erotic ways you can use a spreader bar in the bedroom. The Basic Y Position Spreader bars are exactly what it sounds like; they are rigid bars made from different materials that have anchor points on them for the ankles or wrists. Additionally, there are also spreader bars made for the thighs. As with any sort of sex play, especially activities that involve bondage, you must agree upon and set a safe word. That’s because, kink play oftentimes includes role playing.

Wrist & Ankle Cuff Spreader Bars: These allow for more options than the 2-cuff ankle system. You can have your partner in Hogtie, Spread Eagle, Forward Fold and even an intense Doggy Style with their arms underneath them! You can also use the bar for wrists or ankles only whenever you like!

Though this is enough to keep the sub in place, you can add extra restraints on the legs if needed. For instance, you can tie the legs to the thighs. Men can also have their balls tied to their ankles using a second spreader bar. Squatted The double trouble spreader bar position requires two spreader bars, so you’ll need these on hand before you begin. It’s a fun position since it allows the sub to move around and change positions while remaining bound enough to maintain their vulnerability. While plenty of the kink community is grateful to books and movies for the 50 Shades Effect of bringing bondage and power play into the public arena, there's a lot about the books and movies that should never be recreated or believed. (Like the idea that Christian is kinky because he was abused--something that even Psychology Today waded into to point out that people who are into BDSM are no more likely to have a history of abuse than anyone else.) A spreader bar is a rigid bar used to spread your partner’s legs apart, allowing you easy access to their most intimate areas. Many also come with wrist restraints which will force the wearer to bend over, revealing even more of their ass as well. that you can try out to add some spicy fun to your bedroom activities, one of which is the spreader bar. Spreader bars are one of the restraining toys, holding the legs apart to expose the genitals or immobilizing the wrists for some new and interesting restrictive play. There are a few different spreader bar types to consider. Classic