Sisterhood is powerful. Findoms are enormously supportive of one another, willing to share tips or compare “pay pigs.” These like-minded young ladies network and share stories about big pay-offs from “human wallets”…or others who’ve disappointed or disappeared on them. So in other words, you don’t get addicted to dopamine but you do get addicted to the activities and behaviors which cause its elevation. Based on my experience and observations within, I think the main mechanisms by which people become addicted to and are harmed by it are :- Additionally, the more dopamine you produce and get, the more “used” to its release you get. So whilst the first rush from “likes” is very intense, it can feel less so over time. There are many reasons men become involved in the findom world. Some say the thrill of having a woman demand money and expensive things can be addictive, others that they enter a place where they can forget their worries during an exchange. Whatever it looks like on the surface, the following are a list of just some of the underlying causes of this problem:

In the BDSM community, it’s common knowledge that after any kind of submissive/dominant play, the Dom must give “Aftercare” to the sub. Aftercare generally involves the dominant and the submissive talking things through and enjoying some closeness.See ya never! Forget about sex — just being with a findom IRL (in real life) almost never happens. It is largely conducted largely online. Despite all the gifts and funds he’s given, the fact that a money slave has never even met his goddess is rarely seen as a red flag. This addiction feels like a darkness in me that slowly consumes me and changes me as person and I hate it. For those that become badly addicted, it’s not hard to also imagine how the addiction itself it may contribute outright to depression?

I've been dealing with findom for years, so I feel your pain. It really is different from regular porn addiction, so don't be surprised if people here don't entirely understand what you're going through. Findom is unique in that you're dealing with a person (a findom) who profits from your self-hatred; someone who is attempting to condition you to get off on destroying yourself. Under normal conditions, you would hate someone like this. Notice exactly what you are doing. You're paying someone for the rush of feeling powerless. The irony is, that it's really a rush from how much power you have over them.. They have no power except what you give them. A findom is a cross between a beggar and a prostitute. Nothing more. Deleted chats or browsing history, kept my phone away from my partner, made excuses for expenses or not having money. Talk about your issues with fin dom. If a you feel uncomfortable discussing your urges with a partner, find a trustworthy source to share these feelings and potential guilt. Talking is important, because you don't want to be forced to cope with all of those distressing feelings on your own, which can conjure up unhealthy thought patterns.Warning: This article contains sexually explicit language and potential triggers for those of you with findom addiction. Few people know about the phenomenon of Findom. It’s not completely new, but has been steadily rising over the past few years as we become increasingly involved in the online world. However, what I found after enough attempts, and after trying to fix things in other areas of my life, is that many of the things I used to obsess about were becoming less interesting! Do I feel socially awkward or have trouble connecting with people after I have been active in findom?